What Else Do I Think?

Women are internal beings, so we engage in relationships from an emotionally internal place in my opinion, even with our good girlfriends. Since we’re emotionally invested in our relationships,  that usually does not offer up the space to deal with any other individual romantically immediately following a break-up. Half of the time, we don’t even want to be in the company of another suitor, not because he isn’t attractive or interesting, but because we aren’t internally ready.

I, for one believe, it is a wise move on the part of any person who takes time out to regroup before getting involved with another person. Now, if you’ve emotionally detached from your partner before the break up, what can I say? Go for what you know!

Personally, I believe in spirits, how they transfer and how intertwining them can cause strongholds. Ever heard of soul ties? I know many people don’t believe in them and that’s perfectly fine, but it’s a real thing as far as I’m concerned.

The new word for spirits these days seems to be energy, so think of it that way if it makes more sense to you. Spirits and habits are transferable, period. Ever notice how you hang around someone for so long you began to take on their characteristics? It’s because of the transference of habits.

Ever been in a relationship with someone for so long and suddenly you don’t like who you’ve become? You’ve likely taken on your partner’s characteristics.

However, some habits and characteristics are healthy to adopt. Use your discernment to determine if what you’re adopting is good for you. But, either way, when you depart from someone, that soul tie for most women is not swiftly dissolved, so, we by nature, take time out to become the best versions of ourselves, shedding the attachment of the tie before we even welcome the idea of a new dating relationship.

But, listen up, when we do heal, we pretty much become a renewed being with excitement for what’s to come. It’s a process, a quite beautiful one, actually.